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August 16, 2016

You might have heard that old saying ‘the couple that plays (erotic games) together, stays together’. We’re firm believers that adding a little play improves everyone’s lives. Everyday life is so full of stresses: why add more when we’re in the bedroom? So how do we add more fun to our love-lives?

Sex doesn’t need to be wildly serious. Sure, we need to remember to take safe sex precautions. And yes, we should certainly be serious about consent, and about caring for our emotions when we’re in a sexual relationship.

But the main reason why humans have sex is because it’s FUN! It feels good, physically and mentally. Sensual touch relaxes our bodies, and releases dopamines and a bunch of other awesome brain chemicals that keep us smiling. Sex can get rid of your headache, improve your mood AND exercise your body, all in one go. What other activity is that awesome?

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So there’s no need to be shy. It’s healthy to enjoy an active and enjoyable sex life. Let’s get down to setting up the perfect date night for some seriously sexy fun!

Erotic Games and Sensual Massage

  1. Start off with erotic games to set a fun mood. We dare you to invest in a couple of these awesome games that give Monopoly a real run for its money. Most of the games are set up for two players, but some are for more than two, so you can get a little more raunchy if you’re in the mood. If you don’t have any erotic games on hand, you can go with the old favourite: strip poker. However you play it, an erotic game is a great ice-breaker to get you in the mood for further frisky fun.you-and-me-couples-bedroom-challenges-3_2
  2. Dress it up. There’s nothing like a spot of kinky fantasy to up the ante in the bedroom. The wilder, and even the sillier, the better, as far as we’re concerned. You’ll lose your inhibitions more easily in a fun fantasy costume that lets you be someone different.
  3. Enjoy sensual touch. Massage candles are multitasking seduction must-haves... Set the scene with the flickering light and warmth of a collection of beautiful candles that gently scent the air. The warm and sensual oil that these candles give off is perfect for an arousing massage. Take advantage of this opportunity to remove any pesky clothing that’s still in the way of the fun times ahead. This is a great time to explore each other’s bodies. Enjoy the sensations as you rub the warm, scented oils into soft skin. These candles are completely body-safe, so they also provide a delicious lubricant if things get really hot during the massage session.jimmyjane-afterglow-candle-jimmyjane_1_2
  4. Amp up the sensations with a sexy lip gloss. There are several to choose from, and they’ll create a delicious trail as you kiss your way towards your goal... And remember, the goal here is fun, not counting orgasms (though we’ll guarantee that when you take off the pressure and start laughing together, the orgasm count will go up).
So go ahead and enjoy yourselves more, in the bedroom and out of it! You deserve it.


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