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The Better Sex Blog

Sex is one of the more FUN parts of life. But what happens when sex is more pain and stress than it is satisfaction and joy? One of our favourite pelvic physios, Lulu Becker, talks about the various reasons behind painful sex, and how you can overcome it.
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Our agony aunt explains how masturbating regularly can bring about positive emotional and physical changes - resulting in a happier sex life!
  • 5 min read

Erectile dysfunction (ED) can place huge strain on a relationship, and can be devastating for the man as well as his partner. However, ED doesn’t have to ruin your relationship. Our Agony Aunt at Matilda’s answers a question from one of our subscribers about how to cope with her husband’s erectile dysfunction.

 

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Many relationships go through periods when things in the bedroom just aren't quite as steamy. There’s no need to fret. There are lots of ways to bring back that spark.
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While it’s true that no two people are exactly alike, and we all get into relationships for different reasons, some general principles apply to most of us.
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Sexy is not a size thing … Except when it is. Which is also cool. Honey, there’s one thing I want you to know, and it’s really important. So listen up. You are beautiful.
  • 9 min read
If sex is good for you (and science says it is), then surely more sex is better for you, right? Not necessarily, it turns out.
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I was both intrigued and slightly perturbed at its tiny size. Especially when I considered the big claims and the huge range of features that the manufacturer lists.
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Trying out new things that bring pleasure, pain and a whole spectrum of emotion can be intense for anyone.
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We’re not going to lie, it’s a tough course. But it can totally be done, and the bonus is that there are so many awesome toys on the market now...
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We all lead busy lives. Work, kids, social commitments, more work, emails, stress, writing blog posts for SA’s leading online sex toy and lingerie shop. You know how it is.
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So you find yourself calculating that it’s been three weeks since you last had sex, and you can’t remember how long it was before that..
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When one thinks about a sex drive, you’d immediately think about how an imbalance can cause unnecessary pressure between two people. Or is that just me? Sex is supposed to be filled with excitement and exploration but that pressure can ruin it for so many partners.
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We want everyone making a noise about sex; because great sex is definitely worth shouting about.
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The vagina’s tissue is extremely elastic. It contracts and relaxes as it needs to. During sexual arousal, the vagina relaxes to allow for penetration and, more importantly, pleasure.
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Do you consider yourself, if you're over fifty, as a sexy senior? Here's why you should. Yes, aging affects us in some odd ways.
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The assumptions that come with BDSM are often what keep curious people from trying it out and having what could be incredible experiences.
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For newcomers to anal play we know it can seem a bit daunting, but remember that with some delightful anal toys in hand, you will experience such erogenous delights
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