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April 10, 2018

Great Sex is Possible for Men With ED!
With these tips and tricks

Erectile dysfunction is one of the hardest conditions in the world to live with. It’s just really crap. It dents your ego, it disappoints your partner (who starts to worry that there is something wrong with her) and it just makes sex stressful and anxiety-inducing.

Not fun. But it’s important to know that if you do suffer from Erectile Dysfunction (ED), you’re not alone. The condition is known to affect about 30 million men worldwide. That’s 6 million people more than the entire population of Australia! It’s also important to know that there ARE ways to treat the condition and enjoy a healthy and happy sex life. Yes! We said it! There is good sex ahead for most men with ED! Penis enlargement sex toys, for example, can do a lot for your ED. Have a look at how various toys can help various problems below!

But first, what exactly is erectile dysfunction?

In case you were unsure, erectile dysfunction is the inability to get or maintain an erection that allows for satisfactory sex for both partners. Understandably, erectile dysfunction can cause a lot of distress for both the man and his partner. However, there are ways to control the problem.

What are the symptoms of erectile dysfunction?

The most  common symptoms of erectile dysfunction are the inability to achieve or maintain an erection alone or with a partner, or the inability to maintain an erection until orgasm.

What are the causes of  erectile dysfunction?

Surprisingly, there are many! There are physical and psychological causes of erectile dysfunction.  According to Health 24, 48% of erection problems are caused by problems with blood vessels, 14% are caused by problems with nerves, and 3% are caused by problems with the structure of the penis or surrounding tissue.

And, in turn, all of these can be caused by numerous factors:


Psychological issues can also play a big part in erectile dysfunction. Things like stress, anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), grief, low self-esteem, guilt, and relationship problems can all impact on your sexual ability.

What can I do?

If you do suffer from erectile dysfunction, we’d suggest firstly making an appointment with your doctor to make sure you don’t need  counselling or  medication or even  penile implants.

You can also use some fun sex toys (usually penis enlargement toys) to help you get and maintain an erection.

There are many sex toys you can use to combat Erectile Dysfunction! 

Problem:  I can’t get an erection at all.

Solution:  Strap-ons, and extenders. If you want to enjoy penetrative sex with your partner, you can use a  strap-on dildo. Some of these toys are attached by straps around your waist, while others are  hollow, which allows you to slip them over your penis. It may not give you the exact same feeling as sex, but it can still provide lots of pleasure to your partner.

 

 BS Atelier Strap On Dildo

BS Atelier Strap On Dildo
Fun and flirty, we love this range!

 

Another good option?  Extension sleeves! These are worn by men for the benefit of their partners and basically provide a fuller, longer experience. These devices give you extra length and girth and some come with plastic spikes or knobs, which add even more texture and fun sensations.

Homeboy Vibrating Extension Sleeve

Homeboy Vibrating Extension Sleeve
A great product which benefits both you and her! 


Problem:  I have decreased sensation in my penis

Solution:  Male masturbators. One of the symptoms of ED is decreased sensation, which make maintaining an erection difficult. Strong and powerful male masturbators can help with this - with some you don’t even need an erection to orgasm! Hot Octopus have a variety of options on offer:

Pulse 3 Solo: Uses incredibly strong oscillations to help you achieve orgasm. This device can be used on flaccid penises and allows for hands-free stimulation which makes it a great option for those with physical disabilities.

Pulse 3 Solo Male Masturbator

Pulse 3 Solo Male Masturbator
Can be used on erect or flaccid penises


Pulse 3 Duo: A couple’s vibrator that doubles as a guybrator and vibrator for her. This was designed to increase intimacy between couples struggling with ED. Like the Solo, the Duo uses strong oscillations to stimulate an erect or flaccid penis, while the Duo has a vibrating underplate to stimulate the clitoris. You may not be able to enjoy penetrative sex, but you can still have a rollicking good sex life with this toy!


Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse is great for men. This toy is a lightweight and versatile stroker that can be used when either flaccid or erect. The Pulse’s two large vibration motors work together to deliver incredibly deep and powerful vibrations, which work to bring you to climax. Get your partner to use it on you, and enjoy the ride!

Other toys great for delivering powerful sensations?  The Cobra 2 Male Masturbator and the  Rocks Off Hand-Solo.

Fun Factory Cobre Libre

Fun Factory Cobre Libre
Powerful vibrations straight to the head of your penis

 

Rocks Off Hand Solo

Rocks Off Hand Solo
Rub along your shaft for amazing sensations! 

 

Problem:I can achieve an erection, but not hard enough for sex

Solution: Welcome to the world of penis pumps and cock rings. Penis pumps can help men with ED and also can help prevent men developing ED. Unlike surgery, penis pumps are completely non-invasive, and have no lasting side effects.

So what exactly is a penis pump? It is a penis enlargement device which draws blood into the penis using a suction (or vacuum). It has three parts: an airtight cavity that is usually made of plastic or fibreglass, the pump that is powered either by hand or battery and the penis band or constriction ring at the base of the cavity where your penis is inserted.

A penis pump can appear a bit complicated so it scares a lot of people off, but it’s really quite a simple gadget. Insert your whole penis into the cavity and make sure that it’s secure at the base with the penis band. It also helps to shave your pubic hair to improve the fit of the pump. Then slowly pump out the air (you will feel some pressure) until your penis is erect. This should take about 10 - 20 minutes to achieve a full erection. Place the penis band around the base of your penis to maintain the erection and remove the pump. You are now ready for some kinky action. The erection should last a good 30 minutes. Don’t forget to remove the band afterwards.

If you’re looking at this option, we’d recommend any of the penis pumps from the  Bathmate range. The  Bathmate Hydromax, for example, uses water to create a safe vacuum over the entire penis, without needing a constriction ring. With the Bathmate, warm water increases circulation and enhances blood flow, resulting in an impressive erection. The Bathmate pumps are 250 times more powerful than a standard air pump.

Bathmate Hercules Penis Pump

Bathmate Hercules
A water pump for incredible erections

Cock rings are also a great option if you can achieve a semi. These can make you last longer and can make you stronger and harder. Cock rings delay ejaculation, intensify orgasms and can be used in conjunction with a Bathmate to get a truly impressive erection! Some vibrate too, which gives your partner some extra fun sensation.

A  cock ring is a penis enlargement device made of rubber, silicone or plastic and is placed around the base of an erect penis to trap blood. It’s particularly useful for those who can only achieve a part or semi-erection and need a bit of help getting harder.

Simply stretch the ring over the head of your penis, down the shaft and onto the base. It sometimes helps to shave your public hair to get a better fit. Make sure that you remove the ring after 20 minutes of use to avoid any circulatory risks and wash both before and after sex.

Vibro Rabbit Ring from Malesation

Vibro Rabbit Ring 
Prolong erections and pleasure her

 

Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring

Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring
A wonderful toy for couples

Problem:  I have an enlarged prostate

Solution:  Prostate massagers & Anal toys. Did you know that ED can be caused by an enlarged prostate? Prostates become enlarged due to a build up of semen, which causes inflammation, swelling and bacterial growth. It is not the most comfortable of conditions to have, and severely impacts on sexual ability.

This can be prevented by using a prostate massager, which stimulate a man’s prostate gland. Similar to a woman’s G-spot, the prostate is a walnut-sized semen storage gland, that when stimulated, can result in some pretty incredible and powerful orgasms. This type of orgasm is great for flushing out the prostate, and keeps you healthy and happy. It also lowers the risk of prostate cancer. We love the  Njoy Pure Wand Probe and the  Loki Prostate Massager. 

Njoy Wand Probe

Njoy Wand Probe
This will transform your sex life

 

Loki Prostate Massager

 

Loki Prostate Massager
A P-spot massager that vibrates. Delicious! 

Anal toys can also be used to achieve a similar effect.  Anal beads,  plugs  and  vibrators  are all good toys to use to stimulate this sensitive male organ.

Fun Factory Anal Bendy Beads

Fun Factory Anal Bendy Beads
Play at your own pace

 

Rocks Off Cheeky Boy Male Vibrator

Rocks Off Cheeky Boy Male Vibrator
One of our favourite anal vibes

Takeaway

Penis enlargement products like the ones recommended here are great options for men who suffer with erectile dysfunction. They allow you to experience orgasm, to pleasure your partner and to experience the intimacy that comes from a healthy and happy sex life. These toys can really enhance your sex life, improve your sexual health and enjoy life to the fullest.  



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