ADD SPICE TO YOUR SEX LIFE
Whether in a long-term relationship or starting as a new couple, these tips and tricks will help you rethink your intimacy and want to rekindle novel excitement with your partner immediately.
First and foremost, embrace honest communication. This is vital in any relationship, especially when it comes to intimacy. Openly discuss your desires, fantasies, and boundaries. This not only strengthens your emotional connection with your lover but also sets the stage for exciting new scenarios with them. Remember, Honesty and Transparency pave the way to Excitement and Reward.
The steps below are a sure-fire way to work up some fresh enthusiasm:
1. Try Something New in Your Sex Life
Routine can be its own worst enemy, so perhaps it's time to bring on something new. Whether experimenting with different positions, introducing sex toys, or exploring a Nice little role-play game, stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to exhilarating delights. Be creative and push your boundaries – you never know what you might discover.
2. Set The Mood
Creating the right atmosphere can make all the difference when it comes to spicing up your sex life. Dim the lights, have a candlelight dinner, or play crooning music to set the mood for Romance. Invest in luxurious bedding or a stimulating massage - or all of the above. Little things mean a lot.
3. Prioritise Foreplay
Foreplay isn't just a precursor to sex – it's an essential part that makes the journey even more gratifying. Explore your partner's body, focus on their erogenous zones with orgasm creams like those by Shunga and then pay attention to their responses. Whether by kissing, touching, or oral stimulation, foreplay is the symphony behind the main event. It has a purpose. Too often, dancing without music can become a clumsy, meaningless blunder.
4. Take Your Time
Don't rush (unless you absolutely have to). Spend time touching, holding and talking to each other before venturing near the intense part. Explore. Going too fast can often stifle a potentially beautiful exchange.
5. Look Outside The Bedroom
One of my most memorable love-making moments was when my husband and I were in the Great Outdoors, and we both suddenly got the urge. It was so exciting, we felt unbelievably naughty, and it was delicious! Blew the lid off "Boring"!
Don't be confined to the bedroom. Treat yourselves to fresh excitement by exploring new locations - your home office, on the floor in front of the hearth, or outdoors (be careful!). Maybe a novel activity, like a "dirty weekend", a new hobby, or skydiving to get your adrenaline going. Sharing togetherness can re-kindle your relationship (sexual or otherwise) and, in so doing, create beautiful moments to remember.
6. Schedule Regular Date Nights
Life can get busy, especially for married partners, so prioritising quality time with each other is essential for a solid connection. Schedule regular Date Nights where you live in the Now - exclusively on each other - and indulge in each other. Flirt. Adding games and books on erotica might add a touch of mischief to your evenings. Whatever you do - a romantic dinner, a movie night in, or a stroll under the stars, carving out us-time fortifies your bond and keeps your passion revving.
7. Explore Fantasies Together
Naughty fantasies are a natural part of human sexuality, and sharing them with your partner can be incredibly refreshing. Explore each other's whims and look for those you can fulfil together. Whether it's role-play, a sensual massage, or dancing on the roof, indulging in each other's desires can lead to unforgettable memories and significantly cement your connection.
8. There is Always Time for a Quickie
If you don't have the time for slow and steamy sex, it doesn't mean you have to go without. If nothing else, Quickies will pump some mischief into your life. This way, you can avoid going without and sprinkle hot spice on your intimacy. So yes, we think Quickies are valuable sometimes!
As you can see, bringing adventure back into your sex life doesn't have to be daunting – it's simply a matter of stepping out of your comfort zone and daring to be different. By prioritising Communication, finding new ideas, and exploring each other's desires, your love life will sizzle with new zeal. We dare you to be different and savour the delights!
