Boyfriend Not Keen on Toys?
How to Warm Him Up to the Idea
Whether you have a bedside table full of toys or you’re experimenting for the first time, it can be a little awkward when your guy doesn’t fancy the idea. This probably stems from his not knowing enough about toys or thinking that you're saying he's under-performing. Some guys even fear a toy might replace them altogether.
Of course, you know better – nothing could replace his loving touch or his "real feel' - so it's best to use gentle persuasion to acclimatise him to their plusses. Besides, if he's the fantastic guy you think he is he should be keen to have your interests at heart.
Begin by chatting casually about it. Inform him that millions of people worldwide use toys, and they are still in happy twosomes. If he truly is ignorant about sex tools, suggest browsing them together. Read the descriptions and giggle your way through figuring out how they work. The important thing is that you have fun together to defuse the delusional threat of a toy takeover.
We recommend you start with something small and user-friendly, like a clitoral vibe. Give him control - let him run it over your body, teasing you and simply observing the sexy titillation he's creating. He’ll soon realise this is something you can both enjoy and not his competition.
Once he's past the horrified stage, get him to peek at our selection of cute and classy clitoral vibrators to start his education.
Whatever you do, don't force the issue. Don't get worked up. Be calm, be lighthearted, laugh and marvel. If you bring the fun factor in he should soon get used to the idea. Who knows - he might even want to investigate our entire range of toys?!
