Anal Play - From the Bottom Up

Anal Play: From The Bottom Up

For beginners, anal play can seem a bit daunting, but with these steps and our great selection of superior anal toys and lubes, you are off to a perfect start.

For newcomers to anal play, it can seem a bit daunting at first, but following our tips and using quality anal tools and toys, you might experience erogenous delights that surprise you. There are a range of excellent anal toys for both guys and gals, and Matilda's proudly stocks the greatest. This article gives some handy tips for your new experience.

When it comes to bottom play, you'll want to be on top.

Great Ways to Prepare Yourself

  • Begin by soothing your anal muscles during a refreshing hot shower or long, hot bath. Relax, listen to mood music, and slowly get to know your newfound zone. 
  • Following our motto: "Be clever, be clean", prepare yourself hygienically with Anal Douche.
  • Then, for gradual anal stimulation, squeeze some lube onto your fingers and gently stroke your anus. Remember to check for a suitable anal sex lube that is toy- and body-safe. Just FYI - silicone toys only like water-based lubes.
  • Slowly and carefully insert your finger into your anus, rubbing and clenching your anal muscles. This helps you adjust to the new erotic sensations. Once you are comfortable with these, you can begin playing, preferably with a beginners' anal training kit. 
  • If you have a partner, being in comms is vital when it comes to anal play. Tell them how you feel during this manner of sex, and remember to take it slowly - the anus and rectum are sensitive areas with delicate tissue that is easily torn.
  • Keep your reputable lube handy - at some point, you might have to reapply it. 
  • For starters, we recommend you try a small butt plug or an anal dildo, both of premium-quality rubber or silicone. No inferior-grade stuff, please!
  • Afterwards, clean up smartly with more anal douching.

And that, dear friends, and getting in the mood is all you need to do for your new exciting experience.