How to Experience G-Spot Glory
Five Handy Tips
Whether you're one of those girls whose G-spot is a familiar go-to for fabulous orgasms or someone still to find it, here we have a few tips and tricks to locate it and maximise its potential:
What and Where is the G-Spot?
The G-spot, also known as the Gräfenberg Spot after Gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, is the cluster of nerves inside the vagina that, when stimulated, leads to intense sexual arousal, powerful orgasms, and potential female ejaculation. It is not the same as the clitoris.
Bring On the Toys
While age-old manual stimulation does work for some, a modern toy can often make it easier and much more comfortable for others. Using an ergonomically shaped G-spot vibrator, for example, is a gem for doing just that. Vibrators also help you discover the kind of stimulation that suits you best, and the various modes and speeds add interesting diversity to your 'menu'.
Tone up with Kegel Balls
There is a valid reason women’s magazines regularly feature Kegel Exercise Balls - they tone those muscles in your pelvis that are key to high-voltage orgasms. These toned muscles can be wriggled at will or to hold him tighter. Also known as Love Balls, Ben-wa balls, Kegel Balls or Smartballs, these erotic dinkies definitely work like magic and (if controlled by your partner) give you sexy twitches in your lady bits when you are least expecting them!
Practice Your Pleasure Positions
Try different positions - you will find some make it easier to reach the G-spot than others. The consensus is that the rear-entry, doggy style is the most popular because it allows deep penetration and G-spot- AND clitoral stimulation for amazing orgasms at the same time. Being on top is also a favoured option because it gives you control of developments and makes shifting positions easy - for optimal contact with your sensitive bits.
Leave It Up to Your Partner
It stands to reason that your partner has easier access to your G-spot than you do, and with this advantage, they learn how to satisfy you best. Sexual exploration is a positive way to build intimacy and trust between couples. Let their fingers do the walking, and your body do the talking!
Take It Easy
As in any sexual play, stress and haste are guaranteed mood killers. Take it slowly, unwind, and have no expectations. The idea is to examine every pleasure in whichever direction the impulse takes you. Feel all the sensations and note what works for you and what doesn't. Taking it slowly is good advice because it provides a steady, itching pace of arousal. This slowness also helps to gradually locate your G-spot so that, at last, you explode in an "Oh my gosh - that was AMAZING!!" climax.
