Look, we all know that us girls can take far longer than the guys to get to that happy place. Not that we don’t have a lot of fun along the way. But it can be a bit of a disappointment if he rolls over and starts snoring just when you’re hitting that last haul to heavenly pleasure. Luckily, there are a few ways your partner can help that journey along, even if he’s all done for the night.
Some guys stay hard for a few minutes after orgasm (a love ring can help prolong this). He should take this chance to re-wrap and re-enter. If you’re close to orgasm, take control of the movement – change position if it helps – to get you all the way there. If post-coital satisfaction doesn’t allow his Mr. Happy to rise to the occasion, it’s time to try something different.
This is the perfect time to bring in a little help from your vibrating friends. Complete your unfinished business with a clitoral or g-spot vibe, with your partner’s help or without. If he’s wearing a love ring to start with, he’ll stay hard for some time even after climax.
There’s no reason not to indulge in post-coital cunnilingus, and it can be just the ticket to take you over the edge to that amazing climax. If he doesn’t fancy the taste of latex after using a condom, try polyurethane condoms or a touch of flavoured lube. And don’t underestimate the power of fingers to stimulate the clitoris or G-spot in just the right way.
If you know your body and what works for you, you’re probably a pro at satisfying yourself. Enjoy finishing the job, and let him see just how you like it. It’s a very intimate moment, and he may even find it such a turn-on it gets him going again.