What to Do When Your Man Orgasms First
Find a Way to Prolong the Process
Sometimes, it takes longer for girls than for guys to get to that happy place. Don’t be discouraged if he rolls over and starts snoring just when you’re hitting the high notes. Take heart - there are a few ways your man can help you along, even if he’s all done for the night.
Take Two
Some men stay hard for a couple of minutes after orgasm (a love ring can help prolong this). If your guy is one of these, he should take this chance to re-wrap and re-enter. If you’re close to orgasm, take control – change position if it helps. But, if post-coital satisfaction doesn’t allow Mr Man to rise to the occasion, it’s time to try something else.
A Little Help from Your Friends
This is the perfect time to bring in a little help from your vibrating friends. Complete the unfinished business with a clitoral or G-spot vibe, with or without his help. If he’s wearing a cock ring for prolonged action, he should stay erect for some time after his climax. This means he could re-enter the game after a little while, and all is dandy. There are many other handy little sex toys in our range ready and willing to help as well.
Foreplay, Post-play – It’s All Fun Play
Ladies, there’s no reason not to indulge in post-coital cunnilingus, and it can be just the ticket to take you to that galvanising climax. If he doesn’t fancy the taste of latex after using a condom, get him to try polyurethane condoms or a touch of flavoured lube. And don’t underestimate the power of his fingers to tease your clitoris or G-spot to a resounding finish.
You Take Over
If you know your body and what works for you, you’re probably a pro at satisfying yourself. So, you finish the job if he doesn't. Let him watch just how you do it - he may find it such a turn-on it gets him going for Round Number 2.
Take a Little Breather
If you know you still have a way to go, it might be time to slow down. Have a cuddle, indulge in some dirty talk, or even watch an erotic movie to amp you up. This will also give him time to catch his breath and pick up where he left off, taking you to your grand finale.
Try the Whole Buffet
By now, you are probably getting desperate, so this is where we say: Time for a bit of laughter in the mix, so try the whole shebang! Sexy talk, sexy movie, three lubricants, two vibrators, one dildo, his fingers and yours. If this still doesn't work, don't get despondent, don't give up, just roll over, wink and whisper, "Same time, same place, tomorrow?"!
