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Welcome - We’re so glad you’re here!

Whether you’re curious, celebrating love, or simply wanting things to feel a little better, we’re here to make it easy, comfortable, and beautifully discreet. Have a look around - we’ve gathered a few helpful places to start just below.

Care & Quality
That Feels Right For Your Body

We’re a South African team, working hard to bring our fellow South Africans some of the very best intimate wellness brands from around the world, carefully chosen for quality, safety, and joy.

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A quality lubricant enhances glide, heightens sexy sensations, and helps your body respond more naturally - making those intimate moments smoother. Read more about it here...

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Our Complete A–Z Sex Toy Guide lists every type of toy you need to know about - with some handpicked favourites to help you get started and feel inspired to explore.

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Questions people ask us:

I’m curious… but nervous. Where do I even start?

You’re not alone - We’ve created a safe, easy space to explore what feels right for you and your relationship, at your own pace. 😊

A simple place to begin is with a quality lubricant or a gentle, beginner-friendly product. Think of it as exploring comfort and curiosity, without pressure or expectation. ✨

What's the most crazy common question that we get?

We receive wonderfully varied questions - from “Is this normal?” to “Can I put my toy in the dishwasher?”!!!

Most are simply people looking for gentle guidance around their bodies, intimacy, and choosing the right products. The truth is, the questions are far more common than most people realise - and we’re always happy to help. 😊

Is it normal to feel a bit embarrassed about buying intimate products?

It’s a great question - And yes, it's completely normal! That's actually what got our company started in 2005: People needed help with intimacy. They needed proper care and comfort, which adult shops weren't equiped to deal with.) We created the caring, mindful space to make these conversations easier and to raise awareness of these natural needs.

We weren’t exactly given a handbook on talking about intimacy growing up. That’s why we keep things respectful, discreet, and easy.

My libido has changed recently - is that common?

Yes, it's very common. Factors such as stress, hormones, life stages, medication, and even sleep can affect desire. When you add other life factors, it's very easy to see why libido can change so quickly.

It’s part of being human, and we're here to make things easier, better and more comfortable...

Does quality matter when choosing intimate products?

It really does. Higher-quality materials feel more comfortable, last longer, and are kinder to your body.

When something is this personal and intimate, we've found that choosing well-made products brings greater peace of mind and makes the whole experience feel more confident and enjoyable. 🥳

What lube can I use with sex toys?

When you use lube with toys, water-based is the most versatile and worry-free option. Water-based lubricants are generally the safest option for use with sex toys, especially silicone toys. (Silicone-based lubes can degrade silicone toy surfaces over time.) To keep things safe, use Water-Based.

Are all orders private and discreet?

Yes - discretion is extremely important to us. Every order is carefully boxed or padded, securely sealed, and shipped in plain, unbranded courier packaging. 📦

For extra privacy, there is no reference to Matilda’s at all, on the packaging. We treat your privacy with the same care and respect we would want for ourselves. We do this professionally and take care of our customers' privacy with absolute discretion. 😊