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Finding the right lubricant should feel easy, private, and completely comfortable.
Whether you’re looking for a silky everyday favourite, something longer-lasting, or extra comfort for sensitive skin, we’re here to help. For over 20 years, Matilda’s has helped South Africans shop trusted intimate wellness with confidence, with discreet delivery in plain packaging from checkout to your door.
A few of our
Bestselling Lubricants
7 types of lube
& When to Use Them
Diving into the world of lubricants can feel like being a kid in a candy store: so many options, so many flavors, and each one promises a unique experience! Buckle up (or should we say, "slide in"?) and let's explore the diverse types of lubes out there. We're here to help with your next adventure. 🥳
Psst: If you're unsure as to whether to choose water- or silicone-based lube, you can see our comparison over here!
The Nr. 1 Choice
Water-Based Lube
They're just perfect for any activities, and our most popular choice! Water-based lubes are safe with all toys and condoms, and the high-quality water-based lubes feel incredible. Perfect for good, every-day sex.
You can read our full Guide on Water Based Lubes over here.
long-lasting sex
Silicone-Based Lube
If you're after long-lasting fun, Silicone-based lubes have your back. Get the guide to silicone-based lubes - over here!
They're the champions of extended playtimes, and perfect in the shower or bathtub because they don't dilute or get washed off easily.
Rich & Smooth
Oil-Based Lube
Oil-based lubes feel really rich, thick, and luxurious, with a glide that really lasts. They're wonderful for skin-on-skin sex, and to use with glass and metal sex toys and for erotic massages.
Pure Pleasures
Lube for Sensitive Skin
These lubricants are formulated to be gentle on your body, so you can enjoy intimate moments without worrying about irritation. If you have sensitive skin or react easily, these are the lubes designed for you.
Tasteful Teasing
Flavoured Lubricants
Add taste to your taste-buds for hot, delicious sex. Our flavoured lubes turn up the fun with extra flair - from strawberries to chocolate & more...!
Sexy Sensations
Warming & Tingling Lube
Looking for a little extra sensation? These lubes add a warming or tingling effect that can send shivers down your spine in all the right ways.
That Special Star
Lubricant for Anal Play
Specifically designed for backdoor fun, these lubes are typically thicker, ensuring a comfortable and smooth experience with your favourite anal sex toy.
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Our free Lube Guide is a clear, practical way to understand what really makes a difference. Download it for great advice and guidance to help you choose with confidence.
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I was nervous for my first order, but everything was respectful and very discreet. The quality of my new toys is much better than what I expected
Once I found a lube that worked for me, it changed the sexual experience. It just made everything feel more natural.
Learning about the right lubricant for the job has made sex with my partner so much more enjoyable...
We used to think lube was optional, but now we don't skip it. The right one makes things feel smoother without getting in the way.
Questions people ask us:
You’re not alone - We’ve created a safe, easy space to explore what feels right for you and your relationship, at your own pace. 😊
A simple place to begin is with a quality lubricant or a gentle, beginner-friendly product. Think of it as exploring comfort and curiosity, without pressure or expectation. ✨
We receive wonderfully varied questions - from “Is this normal?” to “Can I put my toy in the dishwasher?”!!!
Most are simply people looking for gentle guidance around their bodies, intimacy, and choosing the right products. The truth is, the questions are far more common than most people realise - and we’re always happy to help. 😊
It’s a great question - And yes, it's completely normal! That's actually what got our company started in 2005: People needed help with intimacy. They needed proper care and comfort, which adult shops weren't equiped to deal with.) We created the caring, mindful space to make these conversations easier and to raise awareness of these natural needs.
We weren’t exactly given a handbook on talking about intimacy growing up. That’s why we keep things respectful, discreet, and easy.
Yes, it's very common. Factors such as stress, hormones, life stages, medication, and even sleep can affect desire. When you add other life factors, it's very easy to see why libido can change so quickly.
It’s part of being human, and we're here to make things easier, better and more comfortable...
It really does. Higher-quality materials feel more comfortable, last longer, and are kinder to your body.
When something is this personal and intimate, we've found that choosing well-made products brings greater peace of mind and makes the whole experience feel more confident and enjoyable. 🥳
When you use lube with toys, water-based is the most versatile and worry-free option. Water-based lubricants are generally the safest option for use with sex toys, especially silicone toys. (Silicone-based lubes can degrade silicone toy surfaces over time.) To keep things safe, use Water-Based.
Yes - discretion is extremely important to us. Every order is carefully boxed or padded, securely sealed, and shipped in plain, unbranded courier packaging. 📦
For extra privacy, there is no reference to Matilda’s at all, on the packaging. We treat your privacy with the same care and respect we would want for ourselves. We do this professionally and take care of our customers' privacy with absolute discretion. 😊