Great intimacy starts with feeling good in your own skin.
Feeling comfortable. Feeling confident. Feeling attractive.
Because when you feel good about yourself, something changes. It's easier to relax. Easier to connect. Easier to enjoy touch, closeness and a little playfulness.
And sometimes, surprisingly small things make a big difference.
FEEL GOOD FIRST
Confidence is
Always Attractive.
Feeling desirable isn't only about how somebody else sees you. It starts with how you feel about yourself. A little grooming. Taking care of your skin. A fragrance you love. Something wonderful to wear. Feeling fresh, comfortable and confident. These are small things, but they can change the way we carry ourselves.
Looking good can change the way you feel. And feeling good changes the way you connect.
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FOUR LITTLE THINGS
That Can Make A Big Difference
Great intimacy doesn't necessarily begin in the bedroom. Often, it begins much earlier - with how we feel, how we connect and whether we make time for one another. Here are four rather simple places to start.
01 - Feel Good in Yourself
Grooming & Body Care
Feeling clean, comfortable and cared for can have a surprisingly powerful effect on confidence.
Make the ritual enjoyable. Find products that feel good on your skin. Groom because you enjoy how it makes you feel.
02 - Slow Things Down
Massage & Touch
Touch is one of the simplest ways we have of saying, I'm here.
Massage gives you permission to slow down. Add warmth, oils or different sensations and something very ordinary can become rather special.
03 - Comfort Part of Pleasure
Lubricants
The right lubricant can make intimate touch smoother and more comfortable - whether you're together or enjoying some time to yourself.
We've made choosing one easy. Read our simple Lubricant Guide.
04 - Be a Little More Playful
Explore Something New
Intimacy likes curiosity too. Try massage. Experiment with touch, pressure, warmth or sensation. Talk about what feels good.
There isn't a "right" way to be intimate. There are simply more things to discover.
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THE POWER OF TOUCH
Sometimes the best thing you can do is slow down.
Touch can relax us, reassure us and stimulate our senses. And it doesn't have to be complicated. Try giving a massage without making it a prelude to anything else. Take turns. Experiment with lighter and firmer touch. Add oil. Change the temperature. Put the phones away.
The absence of expectation can sometimes make touch considerably more enjoyable. And if it leads somewhere else?
Well, that's rather nice too.
Feel good. Get comfortable. Make time for each other. Touch more. Talk more. Stay curious.The rest tends to become rather easier.
SOMETHING WORTH KNOWING
Better lubrication can mean better intimacy.
Bodies change. Hormones change. Stress, medication, age and circumstances can all affect natural lubrication. But lubricant isn't simply a solution to dryness.
A good lubricant reduces friction, enhances sensation and can make intimate touch more comfortable and pleasurable.
The only tricky bit is knowing which one to choose. Water, silicone or oil? We'll explain everything. Read our simple Lubricant Guide.
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QUESTIONS
Not necessarily. Intimate skin can be sensitive, however, so if you use a cleanser, choose something gentle and designed for external intimate areas rather than harsh or heavily fragranced soaps.
An intimate moisturiser supports ongoing hydration and comfort. Lubricant provides glide during intimate touch. They're designed to do different jobs - and some people benefit from both.
Water-based lubricants are a great all-round starting point. Silicone formulas generally last longer and provide more glide. The best choice depends on how and where you'd like to use it. Read our Lubricant Guide →
Not at all. Massage oils can turn ordinary touch into something slower and more sensory. Just check whether the particular oil is suitable for intimate areas before using it there.
Start small. Change the setting, slow things down, try massage, introduce a different sensation or simply talk about something you'd both like to try. Novelty doesn't have to mean doing anything dramatic.
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