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Passionista | The Woman's Guide

This is not just a blow-by-blow (haha) how-to-guide on giving your man great oral sex. No, this is a book about making giving as much fun as receiving. We think oral sex is a hugely important part of any sexual relationship: you make yourself vulnerable and place huge trust in your partner. This book will help you achieve oral sex nirvana!

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Written in the same witty, insightful and immensely readable voice that made She Comes First and Be Honest so popular, Passionista has turned into another bestseller for Ian Kerner. Learn how to drive your man wild, get under his skin and understand exactly what he is experiencing. Giving great oral sex is about enjoyment. It’s about showing love for your partner. This book will help you do just that. We reckon it could revolutionise your sex life! This wonderful book is the empowered woman’s guide to enjoying all facets of sex to the fullest.

Sexual psychology, valuable and well-informed tips, an educated and brilliant author… we couldn’t recommend this book highly enough!


  • A Women's Ultimate Oral Sex Guide
  • Illustrated Instructions

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