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March 12, 2015

What Do Women Really Want?

It's an age old question!

For men who are concerned about pleasing their lover in the bedroom, we thought that we'd provide you with a little erotic etiquette.Here are some guidelines for satisfying her most basic desires.

Know the Lay of the Land

Here's the deal boys – size may not matter, but skill does! Before you freak out though, here's a tip – the internet is full of information - other than porn. It is an excellent resource for the guy who thinks he's lacking knowledge in a particular area or if you're just looking for some new ideas.

Knowledge of the female body can sky rocket you from a 7 to a 10 in no time. It will also make sex SO much better for both of you. Remember that no woman is the same. Just because you explored your ex's body like a boy scout on steroids, does not mean the same pleasure tactics will work with the new lady in your life. Take some time to get to know her special turn-ons.

In the spirit of giving!

Generosity says a lot about a man - like whether you're a man or a boy. Whether it's a foot rub or cunnilingus, you should be willing to give and give some more - out of the kindness of your heart, not because you expect it to be reciprocated. If you come first, find a way to finish her off. It's just the decent thing to do.

Stay Awake!

Studies show that post coitus intimacy is very important to a woman. If you always fall asleep after nooky, put some Red Bull on ice and take a cold shower. Obviously dosing off once in a while is permissible, but you can't deprive a woman of cuddly pillow talk every time!

Romance Her... Sometimes

Women love candles and flowers and lingerie and puppies and… however, we also have a primal side that occasionally yearns for something wild. Sometimes we'd rather be treated like a rag doll than a porcelain doll. With all of the daily stresses, it's nice to have someone else take charge and really have their way with us. It's hot… sometimes.

Keep Clean

Sure, sometimes hot and sweaty is the theme to sexy time but in general, stubble hurts woman's precious face and smelling yesterdays gym routine is not a turn on. Lots of guys face the to shave or not to shave down there situation. We're not going to lie to you, while every woman has her preference, most will not object to a little trim. Knowing we're not going to get a mouth full of fuzz makes us more inclined to give some oral action.




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