Top 10 Male Erogenous Spots

What Are His Most Sensitive Zones?

Women are supposedly the great mystery when it comes to sex but ladies are often just as baffled as to what the opposite sex experiences as sexy. An operation of trial and error is the most frequently travelled route. We’ve asked some men what makes them randy and here are the results:

Anus

Some guys find the prospect of any movement towards the back door downright horrifying! Many a straight man finds the thought of anal stimulation dodgy – if only they could let go of their inhibitions as a veritable plethora of pleasure waits. The only way to locate the male G-spot (the prostate) is through the rear entrance.  Ease him into it by licking the area and if he becomes comfortable with that, very gently use your finger in a “come hither” motion to stimulate the prostate. He’ll be blown away at how pleasurable having an open mind can be.

Back

If men could get away with long, manicured finger nails, they most certainly would. They would scratch their backs until the cows come home. For whatever reason, dudes love their back scratched, it’s that simple. So do it.

Coccyx

The coccyx (the place on your tailbone right before your bum) is one of the sexiest spots on the human body but it’s often neglected in favour of what’s below it. Tickling or massaging this area is a huge turn on for guys so take some time to be intimate before going for the goods!

Perineum

The perineum is located between the scrotum and anus. This sensitive area is best stimulated by applying some pressure with either your fingers or tongue. It’s a great way to take a blow job from average to out of this world!

Nipples

He either loves it or hates it – and there’s only one way to find out. Start out by lightly licking or sucking his nipples. Be gentle as dude’s nipples can be just as sensitive as yours. If he responds well to the manipulation, you can be a bit more aggressive or even try something fun and crazy like electro-stim nipple clamps.

Fingers

Not surprisingly, guys associate having their fingers sucked with thoughts of their nether regions experiencing similar attention. So, next time you feel like arousing him, give him a high five he won’t forget.

Penis

We think this one is relatively self explanatory. In general, the tip of the penis is more sensitive but every guy has different desires so experiment with various hand job methods or blow job techniques. Surprise him by taking him from behind as he gets out of the shower or do something swirly with your tongue – he’ll love the sensations. Don’t be afraid to ask him what he wants and show him how much you really enjoy pleasuring him. Remember - if it feels like a job - you’re doing it wrong!

Neck

The neck is a supremely sensitive spot so gentle caressing, nibbling or kissing can feel heavenly. If this spot seems to get him going, kiss harder (but don’t leave a hicky – it’s so déclassé) and massage the area firmly with your finger tips.

Ear Lobes

Try to keep the slurping sounds to a minimum in this area as all noises are amplified when you’re so close to someone’s ear drum. Other than that, go wild! Lick, bite or nibble this erotic area. Some men prefer gentler stimulation so begin with a soft touch and take it from there.

Mind

It is said that the brain is the largest sex organ in the body – and it’s true. The things that the imagination is capable of are truly amazing. Stimulate his mind by sending sexy messages or emails. If you’re feeling extra naughty take some provocative photos and let his head do the rest. By the time you’re ready to tango he’ll be completely revved up!

This article was first published for All4Women.co.za