Clitoral Climax or G-Spot Glory?

Which Orgasm Is Better For You?

It turns out that Freud wasn’t just a freak who fantasized about his mother. We can thank his feminine theorizing for figuring out that women have two sweet spots. However, he also thought that if women couldn’t master vaginal climax, they suffered from sexual dysfunction – an unfair and self-interested hypothesis that was later disproved. We know now that both clitoral and G-spot orgasms are not only possible but also pleasurable. So, which one is your favourite?

Getting a Girl Off – Clitoral v. G-Spot

There are naturally naughty ways to stimulate orgasms and there are manmade sex toys that will give new meanings to bliss. Try these techniques before you decide on your favourite kind of orgasm:

Clitoral Stimulation Techniques

For those who like localized, hair-raising arousal then clitoral climax is going to be most fulfilling.

Classic: Stimulate the clitoris by rubbing it in circles or back and forth. The pressure and speed is all up to individual preference. If you have a partner, encourage oral stimulation. Licking and flicks of the tongue are divine for clitoral stimulation.

En Vogue: Try Electro-Sex toys for unique and tantalising stimulation. Electro sex toys stimulate your erogenous zones or the sexiest parts of your body with small amounts of electrical energy. They offer a wide variety of delicious sensations like tingling, pulsating, throbbing and even vibrating - plus they’re absolutely silent!

Perfect Positioning: Woman on top. When you’re on top you can find the perfect spot to gain the most friction against your clitoris from your partner. Try leaning backwards so your partner can massage your clitoris with their thumb or fingers. Think about incorporating a clitoral massager into your love-making for even more intense sensations.

G-Spot Stimulation Techniques

If you crave deep and profoundly calming waves of pleasure then G-spot orgasm is just what you need.

Classic: Lie on your back and penetrate the vagina with the penis or by using a finger to beckon in a “come hither” motion. Move your fingers around about 1.5” to 3” inside the vagina until you feel a swollen, ridged, spongy spot on the upper wall of the vagina.

En Vogue: There is a vast array of G-spot vibrators and massagers that are splendidly shaped for out-of-this-world G-spot stimulation. These adult toys are specifically designed to press against the female G-spot creating the ultimate stimulation.

Perfect Positioning: Rear Entry. Positions like doggie-style or spooning allow for deep penetration that will hit the G-spot. You can also try the missionary position with a couple of pillows propped under you for maximum angling.

The most important part about exploring your sexuality is being comfortable and knowledgeable about your own body. Once you know what kind of stimulation rocks your world - clitoral, G-spot or both – you’ll be able to fulfil yourself sexually and help your partner satisfy you.

This article was first published for All4Women.co.za