All You Need to Know About Anal Sex

From Mum to Mainstream - Sex in the Bum

Maybe you’ve tried it before or perhaps you’re just curious. Either way, anal sex has become a more accepted sexual practice. For this sensual act to be safe and pleasurable though, there are some things that you need to know about going in the backdoor.  

Use Lube, Lube and More Lube

The anus, unlike the vagina, does not self lubricate so it is absolutely critical to use a lot of lubricant when you’re engaging in anal sex. The skin of the anus is thin and sensitive which makes it prone to tearing if there’s too much fiction. There are sensational bum toys that are designed for first time rear entry rebels. From anal beads to butt plugs – the options are endless. BUT you MUST slather on lube before anal lovin’ – the more the better!

Anal Play Won’t Put You in Adult Diapers

Despite the horrifying rumours, anal sex will not lead to an enlarged or loose sphincter or anus. Going in the back door will not cause loss of bowel control. There are some that actually claim that regular anal sex gives you more bowel control because exercising and toning these muscles means that you have better control your sphincter muscles.

Don’t Double Dip

When you’re doing the dirty, don’t switch between the anus and the vagina. Even the tidiest bottom possesses natural bacteria that keeps it clean and healthy. However, if you want to avoid infections, it’s better to keep this bacteria away from the va-jay-jay. The same can be said for keeping your anal toys clean and fresh – there are fabulous toy cleaners available to ensure good hygiene at all times.

Make Sure Your Love Glove is Spermicide Free

If you’re using a condom for anal (as you should unless both partners have been tested and cleared for STDs), make sure that it is spermicide free. While this ingenious chemical has its merits, it’s not meant to visit your bum. Spermicide can cause irritation to sensitive anal and rectal tissues.

Protect Yourself from Pregnancy

You can’t fall pregnant from anal sex alone. However, if any sperm decide to escape the anal area, which is pretty easy considering the proximity of the vagina, you can get pregnant. Rather use a condom and/or birth control to prevent this possibility.

Anal Sex is Not Abnormal

Anal sex has a pretty severe stigma. In many people’s minds this raunchy act is reserved for homosexual men. However, lately it has enjoyed a move from taboo to the talk of the town. It’s no longer a disgrace to discuss this dirty deed amongst friends. And why not? The anus is chalk full of sensitive nerves ripe for receiving pleasure. Plus everyone loves feeling new sensations. Just remember that when it comes to anal play, it’s best to move very slowly and with lots of lube.